When your fuming, frustrated, on the verge of tears, and you want to scream and yell, and talk about it, and when you have the chance, you can't say it. It only adds to your frustration and dissipates your passion at the same time. If you can't articulate it can you really feel it? That's not a fair question to ask, considering my clientele. But I think that's the point when people start to lose themselves, the inability to express their anger (or joy) isolates them, and their spirit dies a little.